How To Lose Weight When You’re Over 40

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DIETING IS THE WORST THING TO DO IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PERMANENT WEIGHT LOSS. FIND OUT WHAT DOES WORK, AND WORKS AMAZINGLY FOR ANY WOMAN, OF ANY AGE.

I RECEIVED AN OVERWHELMING NUMBER OF EMAILS AND MESSAGES FROM WOMEN WHO WANT ADVICE ON THE BEST WAY TO LOSE FAT AS WE GET OLDER.

THESE ARE PAIN POINTS THAT A LOT OF WOMEN HAVE I WANTED TO SHARE WITH YOU ABOUT HOW I’VE SHIFTED AWAY FROM WEIGHT LOSS, AND MORE TOWARDS HOW I FEEL BECAUSE THAT’S A FAR MORE IMPORTANT INDICATOR TO A LIFE WELL LIVED. I WILL ALSO GIVE YOU 1 SIMPLE TIP TO HELP YOU GET OFF THE DIET ROLLER COASTER.

WHEN I WAS 45 I ENTERED A FITNESS COMPETITION AND WAS, WHAT LOOKED LIKE ON THE OUTSIDE, THE BEST SHAPE OF MY LIFE. INSIDE I WAS HOT MESS.

I HAD ZERO ENERGY, ZERO FRIENDS (THEY DON’T CALL IT CARB-RAGE FOR NOTHING), AND ZERO ZEST FOR LIFE. ALL I HAD THE ENERGY TO DO ON A DAY-TO-DAY BASIS WAS FOOD PREP, COUNT MY MACROS, DO MY JOB, DO MY TWICE A DAY WORKOUTS, FANTASIZE ABOUT WHEN I COULD EAT AGAIN, ALL WHILE SITTING THERE IN A CALORIE-DEFICIT DAZE.

AFTER THE COMPETITION I QUICKLY GAINED THE WEIGHT BACK PLUS MORE WHICH HAD ME SINK INTO A FUNK AND A DEPRESSION – BECAUSE I COULD NOT MAINTAIN THE PJ THAT HAD LOST THE WEIGHT. MAYBE YOU UNDERSTAND ME? IF YOU’VE EVER BEEN ON A DIET AND “FELL OFF IT” THEN YOU KNOW EXACTLY HOW I FELT.

I WAS FEELING DEFEATED, AND WHEN YOU REALLY PULL THE LAYERS BACK A LOT OF WOMEN, MYSELF INCLUDED AT THE TIME, FEEL WE AREN’T GOOD ENOUGH UNLESS WE ARE AT A CERTAIN SIZE.

WE WILL EVEN BELIEVE THAT WE ARE DOING OURSELVES GOOD BY “REWARDING” OURSELVES FOR LOSING WEIGHT. A LOT OF WEIGHT LOSS ADVICE ADVISES THAT. HIT YOUR TARGET AND TREAT YOURSELF TO [INSERT ANYTHING HERE… DRESS, SCARF, EARRINGS, SPA TREATMENT]. 

BUT INSTEAD, THIS IS REPEATEDLY TELLING OURSELVES THAT HOW WE LOOK NOW IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH. YOU DON’T DESERVE THAT FACIAL, YOU’VE GOT TO LOSE 10LB FIRST.

THANKFULLY I GAVE MY HEAD A GOOD SHAKE AND THIS IS WHEN MY MINDSET STARTED TO SHIFT.

I REALIZED THAT I WAS AT MY UNHEALTHIEST WHEN I WAS STANDING ON THAT STAGE IN A FITNESS COMPETITION.

YOU SEE THE LIFESTYLE NEEDED TO MAINTAIN WHAT I HAD ACHIEVED WAS FAR TOO RESTRICTIVE TO CONTINUE. AND THAT’S NOT HEALTHY.

WHAT IS HEALTHY? HEALTHY IS NOURISHING YOUR BODY SO IT HAS THE ENERGY TO DO WHAT YOU WANT IT TO DO.

HEALTHY IS MOVING YOUR BODY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO, NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE TRYING TO BURN CALORIES OR PUNISH IT FOR EATING TOO MUCH.

HEALTHY IS ACCEPTING WHO YOU ARE NO MATTER WHAT YOUR PANT SIZE IS TELLING US.

HEALTHY IS ALSO NOT FEELING GUILTY WHEN YOU EAT PASTA, DRINK TOO MUCH WINE, SIT ON THE COUCH… OR DO ALL OF THE ABOVE. BECAUSE WHEN YOU HAVE A HEALTHY MINDSET YOU KNOW WHEN YOU DO DO THOSE THINGS, THEN THE NEXT DAY YOU BALANCE THAT SHIT OUT AND HAVE A SALAD AND DRINK LOTS OF WATER.

IN THE 25 YEARS OF BEING A TRAINER, WORKING WITH THOUSANDS OF WOMEN, I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT HEALTHY, AND THIS INCLUDES WEIGHT LOSS AND WEIGHT MAINTENANCE, IS ACHIEVED WITH AN 80/20 APPROACH TO LIFE. 80% WE NOURISH, 80% WE MOVE, EVERYDAY WE APPRECIATE.

WHEN YOU APPLY THIS ONE SIMPLE RULE TO YOUR LIFE,80/20, YOU WILL FREE YOURSELF FROM THE BS THAT COMES FROM BEING ON A DIET.

YOU WILL FIND THAT YOU EAT MORE SENSIBLY BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT RESTRICTING YOURSELF OR TELLING YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN NEVER HAVE CANDY, WINE, OR PIZZA AGAIN. YOU MAY FIND YOU EAT LESS OF THOSE BAD FOODS TOO. BECAUSE IF WE GIVE OURSELVES PERMISSION TO EAT ANY FOOD WE WANT, WE LOSE THAT INTENSE CRAVING FOR THAT FOOD – WHICH DURING A DIET WILL QUITE OFTEN LEAD TO BINGING.

YOU MOST LIKELY WILL FIND THAT YOU LOSE WEIGHT TOO, AND I HAVE HAD A NUMBER OF WOMEN TELL ME THAT THE WEIGHT THEY LOSE WHEN THEY START THIS APPROACH TO THEIR LIFE COMES OFF FROM THE ABDOMEN SECTION.

AND THIS IS BECAUSE YOU ARE ALSO LOWERING YOUR STRESS LEVELS, DUE TO EATING PROPERLY, AND THERE IS A DIRECT CORRELATION TO CORTISOL AND BELLY FAT.

THE 80/20 RULE IS ALSO A FANTASTIC WAY TO MAINTAIN YOUR CURRENT WEIGHT. AND IT’S SOMETHING YOU CAN TRAVEL WITH. 

IF THIS SEEMS TOO EASY FOR YOU, ADAPTING AN 80/20 RULE TO YOUR DIET AND FITNESS PROGRAM THEN I WOULD LIKE TO ASK YOU IF YOU ARE OPEN TO TRYING THIS TECHNIQUE FOR ONE MONTH. TRY IT AND SEE HOW YOU FEEL.

TRY 5 DAYS A WEEK EATING A DIET THAT CONSISTS OF HEALTHY FATS AND CARBS, ACCOMPANIED WITH CLEAN PROTEIN SOURCES, AND 1-3 LITRES OF WATER A DAY.

AIM FOR NO REFINED CARBS AND LITTLE TO NO SUGAR.

TWO DAYS A WEEK EAT WHAT YOU WANT. 

THIS WORKS AND YOU CAN MAINTAIN IT.

WHY DON’T YOU HEAR MORE ABOUT THIS? BECAUSE IT DOES NOT HAVE QUICK RESULTS. AND THIS IS A WORLD OF FAST RESULTS.

BUT IF YOU ARE TIRED OF BEING ON THE DIET ROLLER COASTER, THIS WILL HELP YOU STEP OFF. AND FOR GOOD. 

 

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